Parenting a twice-exceptional (2e) child - one who is both gifted and faces learning or developmental challenges - can be both rewarding and challenging. While these children possess remarkable talents, they may also need additional support to thrive academically, socially, and emotionally.  

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Here are some practical strategies to help support your 2E child.  

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1. Understand Your Child's Strengths and Challenges

 

• Get a Comprehensive Evaluation:   Ensure your child has a full evaluation by  educational and medical professionals  to identify  ​both their strengths and areas  that need more support.  

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•  Observe and Listen:  Pay attention to what your child enjoys and where they struggle. Ask open-ended questions to understand their  perspective. 

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• Create a Strengths-Based Approach:  Focus on building upon your child's talents providing support in areas of difficulty. 

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2. Advocate for Appropriate Educational Support

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• Collaborate with Educators:  Meet regularly with teachers and school staff to ensure they understand your child's unique needs. 

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• Request Individualized Plans:  If applicable, advocate for an Individualized Education Program (IEP) or 504 plan to provide tailored 

          support. 

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• Educate the School:  Share resources and information about twice-exceptionality to help the school develop appropriate strategies. 

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3. Provide Social and Emotional Support 

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• Promote Self-Awareness:  Help your child understand his/her own strengths and challenges. Emphasize that being 2e is part of what     

         makes them unique.

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• Build Coping Skills:  Teach techniques for managing stress, anxiety and frustration, such as deep breathing or mindfulness exercises. 

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• Encourage Positive Self-Esteem:  Celebrate accomplishments and effort,  not just outcomes. 

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4. Create a Supportive Home Environment 

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• Establish Routines:  Consistent routines can provide stability and reduce anxiety. 

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• Offer Enrichment Opportunities:  Provide books, activities, and experiences that nurture your child's interests and talents. 

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• Set up a Quiet Space:  Create a calm area where your child can focus on homework or decompress when needed.

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5. Connect with Resources and Communities 

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• Join Support Groups:  Connecting with other parents of 2e children can provide valuable insights and support. 

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• Explore Therapies and Services:  Depending on your child's needs, therapies such as occupational therapy, speech therapy or 

         counseling may be beneficial. 

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• Engage with Experts:  Consider working with educational consultants, psychologists, or therapists who specialize in giftedness and learning challenges. 

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6. Take Care of Yourself

 

• Manage Your Own Stress:  Parenting a 2e child can be intense.  Make time for self-care and seek support when needed. 

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• Stay Informed: Read books, attend workshops, and connect with professionals to stay up-to-date on best practices for supporting 2e children. 

 

 

By providing a nurturing and understanding environment, advocating for their needs, and celebrating their unique gifts, you can help your twice-exceptional child reach their full potential. 

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